Friday, October 23, 2009

Student Illnesses

The cold and flu season is upon us.  We hear this every year, but with all of the news surrounding influenza, H1N1 and "swine flu" it kind of takes on some new meaning.  Based solely on the number of memos we have distributed on behalf of the state, we all know that this is no ordinary cold and flu season.

Since school started this year, you have received information on how to avoid the flu, how to tell if you have the flu, what to do if you get the flu, and where to get a flu shot.  If you think you are getting inundated with this information, keep in mind, I get it twice - once directly from the Department of Education and then again at home from my children's schools.  It can be, to say the least, overwhelming.

In the end, there are some basic things that we all need to know, to be aware of and to do in order to keep our schools and our students as healthy as possible.

First, if your child is ill, please keep him or her home.  This is particularly important if he or she exhibits flu-like symptoms.  Please keep them home until they are better.  We've already had a few students return to school saying they weren't really feeling better but they wanted to come back to school. 

Second, encourage your child to wash his or her hands frequently.  Every one of our classrooms has hand sanitizer available.  Any time a student coughs or sneezes into his or her hands, he or she should be "cleansing."  Better yet, encourage your child to use a tissue or, better still, his or her sleeve when coughing or sneezing.   Check out this video:  http://www.coughsafe.com/media.html.  After using the restroom, he or she needs to wash his or her hands - yes, you need to remind them of this!  What seems to be obvious to adults in terms of hygiene, is not so obvious to 10 - 14 year-olds. 

You can find the latest information from the NJ Department of Education on the parent information page of our website:  http://www.lebtwpk8.org/.  While I know you probably feel that there's nothing more you can read about the flu and H1N1, please take a moment to review the information.  More importantly, take some time to remind your child about the simple things they can do to minimize the chances of getting sick this cold and flu season.

Monday, October 19, 2009

Halloween Candy

As you all know, Halloween is just around the corner.  While kids get excited about dressing up, nothing is more exciting that coming home with enough candy to send an 800 pound gorilla into a diabetic frenzy!  As parents, we face the daunting task of rationing the candy for our children - and ourselves!  Come on, admit it, you dip into the candy bags too!

Thanks to one of our families at Woodglen, there is a solution for all of that extra candy that you'd rather not have your kids devour before Thanksgiving.

SWEETS FOR SOLDIERS is a program that the Flatley family started last year.  They collect candy around Halloween time and send it to our troops serving overseas.  Through the Flatley's efforts, everybody wins - you don't have so much candy around the house, you get to support our soldiers - many who have been away from their families for a long time, and our brave service men and women get a well-deserved "comfort" treat.  In addition to candy, cards and notes are also accepted and sent overseas.

If you wish to participate in this program, you can drop candy, cards and/or letters off at Woodglen or Valley View School from October 29 to November 4.  The Flatley family has arranged for pick up at the schools and delivery to troops serving in the Middle East.  Collection boxes will be available in near the front lobbies of both buildings. 

Whether or not you choose to participate in this program, please take some time to remember those who are serving our nation.  There are thousands of American men and women serving in our military in order to preserve our freedom.  It is easy to forget their sacrifices now that they are not as much a daily part of the news as they were a couple of years ago.

Monday, October 5, 2009

Sportsmanship

At Back to School Night, one of our parents came up to me to share something about our cross country team.  Now, to be totally honest with you, when a parent wants to share something about a sports team it usually isn't a positive.  I learned that during my years as a high school athletic director.  This time, though, it was different.

This parent wanted to tell me what she had witnessed during our cross country meet at Tewksbury.  She was so impressed that our runners, once they had finished the race, were cheering on members of the opposing team.  I was proud of both our kids and our coach.  That type of sportsmanship is something that coaches develop through both words and deeds.  At the same time, I was also a little saddened.  Not because of what happened, but because it is so rare.  Shouldn't that kind of behavior be the norm instead of the exception?

Coincidentally, a couple of days later, I ran across an article related to sportsmanship on the high school level.  Check it out here:  http://arkansasvarsity.rivals.com/content.asp?CID=992976
Once again, I was moved by a tremendous act of sportsmanship and saddened because it is seemingly so rare that it becomes part of the news.

These stories also reminded me of one that happened last year, as two college softball players carried an opponent around the bases so that the homerun she hit, her first, would count.  The move cost the team a victory in a conference game.  If you haven't seen this story, you can find it here:  http://www.cbsnews.com/stories/2008/05/01/earlyshow/main4061276.shtml

In reality, I am sure that sportsmanship is alive and well in athletic programs around the country; we just don't hear about it enough.  If you turn on the television or go to a professional or major college sporting event, you'd probably think that my statement is incorrect. 

Sports at all levels must be about sportsmanship, even more than winning.  This statement comes from a person who hates to lose more than anyone.  Actually, I don't even think that I like winning all that much, I just really hate to lose.  If we don't teach our kids, though, at the youngest ages, that sportsmanship is paramount, they will never get it. 

Middle school sports, in particular, must stress process over outcome.  Doing things the right way - working hard, playing fair, and good sportsmanship - will ultimately lead to success both on and off the field.  Thanks to coaches like Woodglen's Jen McGuigan,  Cave City High School's Jon Bradley, Central Washington University's Gary Frederick and countless others at all levels of sport, kids are learning and displaying acts of sportsmanship that are supposed to define the games we play.

Next time you are at a game, keep that in mind when you or someone near you seems to have forgotten what it is supposed to be all about.